Finally getting around to updating this profile. We've been on the site for a couple of years and have had the pleasure of meeting some wonderful people (you know who you are). We are clearly no longer newbies, but at the same time this is not a 'lifestyle', it is however, a sexy and fun part of life. We are both well educated, well traveled, fun and attractive. We are not drop dead gorgeous but we do work out 3-4 times a week and look younger than we actually are. We are the couple you see at the bar chatting away like they just met. After 15 years together we are closer than ever. We are a full swap couple and looking for the same. Physical attraction is clearly very important but for us, so is the ability to hold a conversion. Attraction is more about the inches between your ears than the inches in your pants. That said, she really does love men and though happy to play girl on girl, for her, that's really not the main course. We're happy to take it slow if you are just finding your feet but if you really don't know what you want, we're probably not the couple for you. If you enjoy good wine, good food, great conversation and flirting all the way to the bedroom then we need to talk. If we flirt we are interested. Don't be shy!

My Ideal Person Intelligent, fun, HWP couples who are just as interesting outside the bedroom as in it.

DD free and safe should go without saying.