I'm a 40-year-old SBF. I'm vegan, atheist, bisexual, secretary, student, care giver to elderly grandparents, activist, into women's issues, animal rights, environment, any kind of music so long as it sounds good, politics, other cultures, Buddhism, Hare Krishna, Taoism, and self discovery.

My Ideal Person Nice, sweet person, good-hearted, kind, good-natured, understanding, compassionate, respectful of all life, honest, good sense of humor, calming influence, caring, sincere, generous nature, common interests, not stupid, common values, vegetarian, healthy lifestyle (don't worry if you're not quite there yet), someone who acts on their beliefs, sex positive, patient, communicative (I'm not a mind reader), and should also be able to enjoy each other's presence in silence (shouldn't feel obligated to entertain each other all the time).

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My fantasies mainly involve making love in various places. Places: fenced-in backyard (good weather, but think a rainstorm would be wonderful), basket of a hot air balloon, public place, backseat of a car (parked or moving), the open part of a pick-up truck, driver's seat of a car (in motion on a highway), in natural environment (while camping somewhere, outdoors, beautiful field somewhere), on a conoe, yacht, on deck of sailboat, island paradise, movie theater, waterfall, golf course, on a stage (play, strip act), doctor's exam room (full pelvic exam, lol), elevator, bar, pool table, swimming pool, hammock, airplane, beach, tree house, solarium, office, & public park (seen as natural by others & are ignored or cause a scandal).

Other fantasies include orgy, gang bang, cum bath, prostitution, public humiliation, seeing an attractive stranger then going to a hotel room for a fabulously fun fuck with no strings & just loving it and still respecting my partner as a human being being spontaneous.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I don't really fantasize about celebrities.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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